- Stay calm. Don't panic or overreact.
- Believe the child.
- Assure the child that she/he is not to blame for what has happened.
- Do let the child know it was very brave to tell you.
- Let the child know you are glad she/he told you.
- Protect the child immediately from the suspected offender.
- Report the abuse at once to the Department of Health and Human Resources, Child Protective Services (1-800-352-6513) and the police.
- Refer the family to the local rape crisis center.
- Get a medical exam even if the child appears to be without injuries.
- Connect the child with a counselor who can provide support.
REMEMBER:
- Children only report sexual experiences they have encountered.
- Children are not responsible for assaults against them.
- Most children are afraid to tell their parents what happened.